lajakesdad wrote:I was a skate punk in high school and The Dead was the the most opposite from that scene. I knew guys that were into them and would go to the shows. It always seemed more for the drugs and partying. I didn't even know any of their songs besides Casey Jones and I had no interest in seeing them. A few years later some close friends got into them and went to shows and followed them etc. I just couldn't stand them. I said no to many chances of seeing them. I even quit a roadie job while on the road partially because the road manager only played live GD shows when he was driving. I was assigned to the crew van and it drove me crazy. My ears weren't ready then.
Many years later, my brother in law gave me Hundred Year Hall from Germany 1972. First song was Bertha and I was hooked. I listened to that album over and over and never looked back. I have all studio albums, tons of live shows and Dick's Picks. I have read quite a few books and seen most videos. I have studied this band. They are one of my favorites now. The Keith and Donna years when Pigpen was still alive are my favorite. I dig all the early stuff too.
I really wish I would've gone to a show.
One of my nephews (who just turned 42 today) was raised on the Dead, Zeppelin, Floyd and others by his parents who would use their music to lull him to sleep using a giant ass set of headphones, grew up to be a punk rocker who hated all of those bands. However in private, he once revealed to me back in the mid-90s that he had a soft spot for Workingman's Dead and American Beauty. Not long after that I put Reckoning on the CD player and he said, "I don't know who's CD this is but if you don't remove it right now, I'm going to burn it". To which his Dad said, "I like the Grateful Dead and I'm going to listen to it" to which my nephew then shut the fuck up. That's why I'll never get all of his punk rock poseuring. Either you like a band or you don't. If you like a band like the Grateful Dead, which can be a very polarizing band to like, then you need to be prepared to take shit for it. I know I have. That same summer I met a "reformed Deadhead" who had his Steal Your Face tattoo marked through with a "no" symbol and then had "666" tattooed on his arm just below it. I don't understand that either.