I am a 10+ year friend of the one you call clams, I think we know who you can blame those 82 pages on... But yes, welcome. I am a 10+ year friend of the one you call clams, Our sympathies. And welcome. Finally, a group who knows what it is like to never be on the winning side of an argument, despit...

first post from a previous lurker, relative newbie... by way of self-hazing, I read all 82 pages of this thread. if that doesn't serve as a suitable initiation, please consider that I am a 10+ year friend of the one you call clams, who is beyond shocked that I finally started paying attention to DBT...